If you use text messages correctly you can:
(i) Screen for girls who just are not into you (ii) OR (better), prime girls who ARE into you to be ready for sexy time, straight away
1:/ Meet girl 2:/ Work out degree of sexual tension in initial interaction 3:/ Send initial PUA Text game after meeting – loads of threads on this, search them out. 4:/ Then throw out the ‘bait’. THIS IS KEY
The bait is intended to get things sexual. Show her that you’re not entirely safe, and get her thinking of you in a sexual way. There is a ladder though, so start off by keeping it subtle. Here is an examples of some PUA Text game I have used:
(i) “I bet you would look nice with high heels and sexy skirt …and black tights”
Let’s her know you’re thinking about her, that you find her sexy Establishes a subtle form of dominance / masculine leading – tells her what you would like her to wear Gets her intrigued, and thinking sexual thoughts about you
A few hours after the initial PUA Text messages, or when you feel like it. BEFORE you try and arrange a meet.
5:/ Then arrange logistics of meeting 6:/ Before meeting send PUA text messages and subtly and gradually escalate..You have to calibrate it to her. If she is super enthusiastic about your initial text you can push a bit more. Just a little though. In the above example, she replied and said she would wear that, but heels cannot be too high as she would be taller than me (cheeky cow!) . In other words, she took the bait! Here was my reply:
“Baby that would be sexy…I will think about that. And maybe a few naughty things xx
Now you’re on a sexual plane. Next step is to illustrate you’re thinking about her before meeting. Fantasising. BUT, don’t send too many, don’t bombard her! Maybe 1 per day.
Things like this:
“Goddam baby…Now I keep thinking of you in your knickers and bra. Lying on my bed, with your hair fanned out”
Depending on how she responds , you can escalate further and tell her what you will do to her. AVOID CRUDE LANGUAGE AND SWEARWORDS. It never works, and turns her off
“I am going to tease you, and kiss you all over. I wish you were in my bed now”
If she starts to object, call you horny or sleazy (shouldn’t do if you follow the rules), you need to send something like the following:
“No, I’m not rude…Just passionate. I really liked the way you looked. Do you see? But I don’t want you to be offended..I guess it’s difficult to convey over text”
NOTICE YOUR NOT APOLOGISING HERE. THE POSITION IS YOU ARE PASSIONATE AND COULDN’T HELP YOURSELF AS YOU REALLY LIKE HER ETC ETC.
If you do this all the time, your dates will be more sexually charged, right from the bat.
NOTE: IF she doesn’t respond by taking the bait at all, you can back off…BUT – in all likelihood, NOTHING will happen. So this process serves as a way of screening, as well.
But that’s why you have the BAIT PUA Text Messages, for girls who are a bit more reserved – it’s a way of opening them up, in a safe way, as it’s you who is seducing her….